Ten Great Holiday Dates
By Toni Coleman
Dating during the holiday season can be a special treat.
Of course, in order to fully experience this you may need
to re-order some priorities and make time for yourself
and your own personal needs. Don't give into the
temptation to put your social life on hold until after the
New Year. Manage those work projects and family
demands in a way that leaves you open to try some of the
romantic and fun-filled activities that are available at this
time of year.
The following 10 date ideas should help put you in the
mood and may even inspire you to come up with a few on
your own.
1.Have a "progressive" dinner together. Go to one place
for your appetizer, another (romantic and intimate) place
for your dinner; and then have dessert and coffee
(nightcap), in a quiet spot with a beautiful view of holiday
lights or other holiday views. Even better, go by limo, so
you have all your time to focus on each other and don't
have to worry about all the driving.
2. Take a holiday tour of historic homes in your area.
Many areas of the country have these. Often they are
done in the evening by candlelight. Afterwards, you can
go for a walk and view the surrounding neighborhood
lights and decorations. Finish with coffee in a quiet bistro.
3. Get dressed up and attend a holiday concert or play.
You can spend a lot or very little on this kind of date,
depending where you go for the entertainment. A nice
little before or after meal fills out the evening.
4. Go and get hot chocolate with your date; then go look
at Christmas lights or displays available in your area.
Many places have dazzling displays that light up the night.
5. Go ice skating together. Find a nice place, not too
crowded. This brings out the playful side and encourages
a lot of interaction with each other. Hold hands, show off,
race- be kids again!
6. Attend a religious service together. This could be
accomplished by going to a place of worship that one (or
both) of you belong to; or you could go to a non-
denominational service. An evening service, followed by a
supper in an intimate restaurant could fill you with a sense
of well-being and peacefulness.
7. Throw a small holiday get-together with a few other
couples (or friends). Plan an activity such as trimming the
tree or lighting the menorah. Be sure to serve festive food
and drink. A bonus would be to have a secret Santa gift
exchange. This would be where each person brings a gift
($10.00 or less). Everyone picks a number. Person with
number one begins with first selection. Go through all the
numbers and open each gift in front of the group.
Exchanging is fine and provides some extra fun. Lots of
laughs and very interactive.
8. Choose your or his/her place, stay home, rent old
holiday classics, light the fire and cook a simple but festive
meal together. Play holiday music while you cook. Then
watch (a few if you like) holiday favorites together. Or,
you can bake Christmas cookies or other holiday treats
together while listening to music and enjoying the fire.
9. Work at a soup kitchen one day (meal) together.
Sharing the experience of giving is a wonderful way to get
to know someone and deepen a relationship. It is also a
great way to get into the true holiday spirit. After the clean
up, go for a walk followed by coffee or a nightcap.
10. Go to a planetarium (if one is nearby). Enjoy the
spectacular winter sky together. There is usually a guided
"show" that you can experience as you sit closely,
(perhaps hand in hand?). Try to pick out constellations
together as you walk back to your car. It is always nice to
have an intimate meal afterwards.
See if you can add some ideas of your own to this list.
Then put aside several evenings over the next few weeks
and awaken those feelings of peace, joy and goodwill for
others.
Happy Holidays!
Toni Coleman
Helping Singles Find Lasting Love