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Disputing the Bad Dad Image
by Sanford Braver, Ph.D
ASU Professor disputes Bad Dad image in new book.
What if one of the most significant pieces of social data of our time
was flatly wrong, the result of a glaring arithmetic error?
Sanford Braver, Ph.D., a Psychology Professor at Arizona State University
says in his new book, Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths (co-authored
by Diane O'Connell and published by Tarcher/Putnam) that data published
in 1985 which fueled the national outrage and policy-making campaign against
divorced dads was filled with errors.
The famous data, published by Harvard sociologist Lenore Weitzman in her
book, The Divorce Revolution, purports to show that fathers actually benefited
economically from divorce while mothers and children, on average, suffered
a 73 percent drop in their standard of living.
"It would be fair to say that Weitzman's findings are the most widely
known and influential social science results of the last 20 years,"
Braver said. "At first, I found myself thinking that if mothers and
children experience a 73 percent decline in living standards while men's
substantially increase after divorce, we need divorce policies that bring
more balance. But then I began questioning Weitzman's calculations. I
found almost certainly that she had mistakenly switched around two figures.
When I telephoned Weitzman to explore this possibility, she admitted that
such an error was possible. But it took seven years until she publicly
admitted her findings were erroneous."
Braver conducted an eight-year study of 400 divorcing couples in Maricopa
County, Arizona, funded by several federal grants, to trace what he now
calls the myth of the "bad divorced dad." His study revealed
several surprising findings that directly challenge current thinking about
divorced fathers. For example, he found that divorced mothers are far
more satisfied overall with the terms of their divorce settlement than
fathers are, and about three-quarters of divorces are sought by the mothers.
But his most startling result is that there is little difference in how
fathers and mothers fare economically after divorce.
While attempting to duplicate Weitzman's findings, Braver and his colleagues
discovered not only the reversing of the two figures, but that other important
factors, such as the effect of taxes and the father's spending on the
children during visitation, had never been included in any previous calculations.
When Braver included these factors into the equation, the results showed
nearly equal economic circumstances between fathers and mothers.
"I expected these factors to narrow the gap," Braver said. "
But I have to admit I was stunned that taking into consideration something
as commonplace as taxes would virtually eliminate the gap."
Braver's book catalogs six widely accepted beliefs surrounding divorced
fathers. In addition to those previously mentioned they include that father's
don't pay much child support, that they fare better emotionally after
the divorce than mother's do, and that they don't try to visit their children
much after the divorce. After studying those beliefs scientifically and
statistically, however, they turned out to be myths.
While he found some divorced fathers who fit the stereotype, most instead
truly want to be responsible, loving fathers, debunking the myths. He
believes prevailing social attitudes and biased media coverage have contributed
to the "bad dad" image and have ultimately caused damage to
fathers, mothers and children. Based on a truer picture he found, Braver's
book suggests programs and custody policies that he expects will remedy
the severe social problems caused by the distorted former views.
Note to Media: Press kits and copies of Divorced Dads: Shattering the
Myths, are available upon request through Ken Siman at Tarcher/Putnam
Publishing (212) 366-2000
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Lynette Summerill
Media Relations & Public Information
Arizona State University
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